Monday, September 28, 2009

Parenting Tips and Blog Hop: Three Things Every Parent Should Teach Their Kids - 9/28/2009

This is my entry to the MckLinky blog hop for this week's theme: Three Things Every Parent Should Teach Their Kids. This is not a list of the MOST IMPORTANT. This is just a part of what other parents, like me, think we should teach our kids. Please do visit the other blogs listed in this blog hop to check what other moms and dads think.

My 3 things every parent should teach their kids are 3Ps.
1. Patience in waiting. I've noticed that my children are so impatient. When they want something, they want it NOW. Well, they have to develop it slowly because it comes with maturity, and their childishness right now still gets in the way.

2. Perseverance. Another thing I've noticed is that when they have to do something like their school homework, for example, when they see it's hard, they want to give up easily. I need to teach them that in order to gain something it takes a lot of hard work. I guess this generation is getting more used to the "instant" solutions made available by technology.

3. Prayer. Praying means they have trust in God. This is most important because when they learn to trust God, even when things are long in waiting or the going gets tough, they will always lean on God for hope and strength.


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Sunday, September 20, 2009

Stay at Home Business 101: Get Paid to Read

This is now the 3rd of the series about Get Paid To programs. The first two were Get Paid To Click and Get Paid To Programs. Now, it is Paid To Read or PTR programs. In PTR programs, you will agree to receive email from the site and get credit for reading them. Why not? If you have the time and means.

As a tip, it would be wise not to use your primary email address in registering with PTR programs. You don't want your primary email inbox bombarded with tons of email ads, right? So, it is best to use a separate email account solely for GPT programs (as already mentioned in the first 2 posts). I use Gmail. Because with Gmail, I can easily set up a filter label (See picture below) for each PTR program. This makes my inbox more organized and easy to navigate.

Most of the PTR programs I know pay 0.25 cents to 1 cent per email read. Some are much lower. But beware of those which offer $1 per email, most of the time, they are scam sites. Example PTR sites are:
  • DonkeyMails - 0.25 cent per email; approx. 5 emails every other day; minimum cash out $1; you can earn also by PTC and get paid to sign up.
  • MatrixMails - 1 cent per email; minimum cash out $2; you can earn also by PTC and get paid to write articles.
  • Wordlinx - 1 cent per email; minimum cash out $10; you can also earn by PTC.
  • Ads for All - 0.2 cent per email; minimum cash out $1; you can also earn by PTC.
  • Adsquik - 0.5 to 0.1 cent per ad read; (This is not really a PTR site but an ad exchange site. You earn points by reading email sent to you. In return, you can post ads using the points earned. The owner is just generous that cash rewards are given. This is a wonderful site for me.)
So that's it for now. Next post on Stay at Home Business 101, I'll post some proof of payments to the GPT programs I joined.

Monday, September 14, 2009

Blog Hop: Show Off Your Art 9/14/2009






This week's Blog Hop theme is "SHOW OFF YOUR ART". This theme was suggested by a blog hop fan this week. Many of you are artists, wanna be artists or have kids who love art. This blog hop is your chance to show off your art. Don't be bashful or shy, you don't have to be a professional, it's not a contest. Drawing, painting, scrapbooking, crafts or just one of your kid's masterpieces... let's all enjoy it! NOTE: if you don't have a scanner, just take a photo and put it online.

I would like to share some of my son's drawings using the Paint software. My son drew these when he was 7 years old as a practice assignment for their Computer class. I was surprised that he can "paint".

My son's drawings may not be perfect but for me they are wonderful works of art. I support my son 100% in his efforts at drawing. God would want us to nurture our children's talents. Who knows, some day his art talents would be used by God for a special purpose.
Show me a person who doesn't know his talents or hasn't developed them for service to others, and I will show you a person who has little sense of purpose, meaning, motivation and value. Tom Paterson

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Parenting Tips: Dealing with Dawdling

"Hurry up! You're gonna be late for school again. If only you would eat as fast as when you're told you can play PSP." Why is it that it is difficult for children to hurry up? Why is it that they don't seem to care about the passing of time? Why do they dawdle? Do you have to deal with this with your school children?

According to the book Discipline Without Shouting or Spanking, which I'm reading, this is because "time has no meaning to a child under 6 years old (maybe older?), hurrying has no great advantages." To help prevent dawdling, some of the suggestions are:
  • Try to allow lead time. Give more time to prepare. This may mean waking up earlier to prepare for school.
  • Establish and maintain a schedule. Set a time limit and regular pattern for eating, playing, bathing and sleeping to develop consistency in the child's activities.
  • Turn instructions into fun, not frustrating orders by running races with her instead of urging her to just hurry up.
  • Don't nag. Nagging usually just makes him to dawdle more and give her attention for not moving.
  • Be a role model. Being an on-time person helps your child understand the importance of meeting time goals. Don't dawdle yourself.
Well, these are good tips. I do need to work on these myself. Let's give it a try.

Monday, September 7, 2009

Tips on How to Declutter Your Home

All of us like a house that is organized and clutter-free. Moms, like me, are usually left with the unending task of keeping the house clutter free. What are we to do with the lots of things that have become unwanted clutters around the house. For me, my children's toys are on top of the list. For others, it can be tons of clothes in the closet, shoes, books, novelty items, etc.

One time, I watched Ophrah's show that featured tips on how to organize and keep the house clutter-free. Let me share what I learned. To know which of the things we have that we should keep or dispose of, it will be helpful to have 5 boxes that are labeled Trash, Keep, Donate, Sell and Swap.

  • Trash - These are the things that are totally unusable and are just cluttering up the house, i.e. broken toys, slippers without the other pair (really), etc.
  • Keep - These are the things that you decide that you want to keep. They may just need some washing, recycling or a touch of creativity.
  • Donate - There are a lot of charities that we can share old but usable clothes, shoes, bags with. That is where our children give their old toys to.
  • Sell - A lot of things that we buy we rarely use. What we can do with these is to sell them on a yard sale. If you can sell it online, like ebay or TripleClicks, you can earn 4-5 times more than a yard sale. Be sure to ready your handy camera and take a picture of the items to make it more saleable.
  • Swap - Among the things that we don't want to keep but are still good, are items that we see and immediately someone comes up to mind that we want to give that item to.

Be sure to do these from time to time so that your clutters at home won't pile up. And you would have more free clean space to enjoy at home with your family.

I found this site where you can get more tips for Decluttering delivered to your email for FREE. Get more quick, interesting and helpful free tips to show you how to Declutter Fast in your email! Mimi's Declutter Fast Tips have been tested by people all over the world. Sign-up now. (You have to scroll down the page a little bit to see the sign-up box.)


Tuesday, September 1, 2009

Learning to Read at Home

Finally, Kristel is reading. It took a while before Kristel learned to read. She is now 5 and I've been homeschooling her for almost a year now. Unlike her 2 older brothers who were already reading at age 4, Kristel learned to read a year later. I had to exercise patience because her attitude toward studying was quite different from that of her brothers. Let's just say that it is not her inclination. But I'm just so glad that my efforts paid off and now she's reading and voluntarily doing so.

Here are some of the things we can do to help our child learn to read:
1. Talk with and listen to your child. Hearing you talk is a baby’s very first step toward becoming a reader. It helps her to love language and to learn words. As your child grows older, engage her into talking and listen to her. By doing so, she is encouraged to think as she speaks.

2. Read together with her. Children love stories. Try to spend at least 30 minutes each day reading to and with your child. At first, read for no more than a few minutes at a time, several times a day and choose books with many pictures. As your child grows older, you should be able to tell if he wants you to read for longer periods. Most of all, make sure that reading stays fun for both of you!

3. Show your child that you read. When your child sees that reading is important to you, she may decide that it is important to her, too.

4. Help your child learn about books and print. Reading together is a perfect time to help a late toddler or early preschooler learn what print is. As you read aloud, stop now and then and point to letters and words; then point to the pictures they stand for. Your child will begin to understand that the letters form words and that words name pictures. He will also start to learn that each letter has its own sound—one of the most important things your child can know when learning to read.

5. Encourage your child’s early writing efforts. Writing and reading go hand in hand. As your child is learning one, he is learning the other. Take every opportunity for him to practice both. Even at about age 2, he can be encouraged to draw and scribble using crayons and paper. He will have fun choosing which colors to use and which shapes to make. As he holds and moves the crayons, he will also develop muscle control. When he is a late toddler or early preschooler, he will become as eager to write as he is to read. Using laminated wipe-clean pages were very helpful to my children in their first efforts to learn to draw, write letters and numbers.

Here are some web resources that were helpful in teaching my kids to read:
1. www.Starfall.com - Where children have fun to read because it is animated and uses interactive learning. Primarily designed for first grade, Starfall is also useful for pre-kindergarten, kindergarten and second grade. It is perfect for homeschooling. Most of all, it's free to use.

2. www.Headsprout.com - This learning to read program is not free but highly recommended for K-2 or older struggling readers. It uses fun, online interactive lessons, offers printed stories and gives a progress report of your child's reading.

"As parents, the most important thing we can do is read to our children early and often. Reading is the path to success in school and life. When children learn to love books, they learn to love learning.”
- Laura Bush

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